Reunification Therapy in Florida Custody Cases: What Parents Need to Know

What Is Reunification Therapy?

Reunification therapy (RT) is a court-ordered or voluntarily agreed-upon therapeutic process aimed at repairing and rebuilding the relationship between a child and a parent after separation, estrangement, or alienation. In Florida family law, reunification therapy is often used when:

• A child has not seen a parent in a long time
• The child refuses to visit or engage with a parent
• There's been high-conflict litigation or alleged parental alienation
• There's been previous trauma, abuse, or emotional damage

This form of therapy is facilitated by a licensed mental health professional and may involve both the child and the parent in various stages, depending on the readiness and safety of the relationship.

When Is Reunification Therapy Ordered in Florida?

Reunification therapy can be requested by either parent or recommended by a Guardian ad Litem, parenting coordinator, or the court itself. A judge may order reunification therapy when:

• There has been a breakdown in the parent-child relationship
• The child resists or refuses contact with one parent
• Allegations of parental alienation are raised
• Long absences have occurred, such as during incarceration or relocation
• Rebuilding trust and connection is in the child's best interest

It's important to understand that Florida courts prioritize the best interests of the child. Reunification therapy isn't about blaming either parent—it's about restoring healthy, safe bonds when appropriate.

What Happens During Reunification Therapy?

The therapist typically follows these stages:

1. Initial Assessments – The therapist interviews each parent and the child to assess the situation and emotional readiness.
2. Individual Sessions – The therapist may work individually with the child and/or parent before bringing them together.
3. Joint Sessions – These may involve structured conversations, activities, or shared experiences to help rebuild connection.
4. Progress Monitoring – The therapist updates the court or attorneys involved if therapy is court-ordered.
5. Transition Planning – When progress is made, the therapist may help transition to a more typical timesharing schedule.

The pace of reunification therapy depends on the child's comfort level, the family dynamics, and the cooperation of both parents.

Can the Reunification Therapist Be Called to Court?

Yes—but with limitations. The reunification therapist may be asked to testify in court, especially if progress has stalled or one parent claims therapy isn't working. However, confidentiality rules still apply. Parents should be aware that therapy notes, session content, and the therapist's recommendations may become part of the legal record—particularly if the therapeutic privilege is waived.

How to Support the Process as a Parent

If you're the parent seeking reunification:

• Be patient. This process can take time and is led by the child's readiness.
• Avoid blame. Focus on healing, not pointing fingers at the other parent.
• Follow through. Attend all sessions, remain respectful, and do the work.
• Avoid discussing litigation with the child.

If you're the residential parent:

• Support the therapy. Encourage your child to attend and engage.
• Avoid coaching. Let the therapist do their work without interference.
• Refrain from judgment. Your attitude about the other parent influences the child.

Final Thoughts

Reunification therapy can be an incredibly healing process—but it requires commitment, emotional maturity, and respect for the therapeutic boundaries. When successful, it opens the door to rebuilding a child's relationship with a parent and promoting long-term emotional stability.

At Family Matters Law Group, P.A., we help parents navigate the complexities of court-ordered therapy and advocate for their child's well-being throughout the process. If you believe reunification therapy may be right for your case—or has been ordered and you're not sure what to do—reach out to our team for a consultation.